You say well just get over it! Get out from under your circumstances get a life take up a hobi or something to occupy your mind and your energy.
Lifes journey has thought me so many things. To value my time to appreciate my friends and to appreciate me for who I am for the sacrifices for the willingness to give without expecting anything at all.
As we all get older in life I believe we learn to stay away from meaningless things in our lives. It could be material things it could be friends or families that will prevent us from living a rich and fulfilling life.